The great normalizer

When I finished elementary school, half my class went to one junior high, the rest of us somewhere else. At the end of junior high, half the kids went to one high school, the other half somewhere else. When highschool was over, it was rare if even three or four of us went on to the same college. This has had the cumulative affect of meaning that almost no one stays in touch with anyone they have known since school days.

I have always thought this was an advantage of California over Iceland, where one is extremely likely to be running into all of one's ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends and highschool rivals, etc., ad nauseum the rest of your life. The drama and the trauma of those days does not die as quickly in Iceland as in California, I surmised. Facebook is, however, making some headway into normalizing this difference between Iceland and California; now Californians can also relive highschool dramas and traumas anytime they like, just by logging in.

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Iris said…
I have made it a personal policy of mine to not look for anyone or accept anyone's friend request who is not a real life friend of mine at the moment!
December 10, 2008 at 2:25 AM
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